CPx Launches!!

I have had a blast serving on the CPx staff team for the last 4 months. Read about our class in my post HERE. Well, CPx consists of 3 months of teaching followed by 2 months of full-time, cross-border outreach. The teaching phase just ended and the students were launched out into outreach over the past weekend.

Teams are headed to:

  • Zambia
  • Malawi
  • India
  • Madagascar
  • Ocean View (local)
  • University Campuses in Cape Town

The teams are made up of awesome servants and world changers that I just got to spend the last 3 months with. Pray with us for them and follow their journeys at www.cpxoutreach.posterous.com.

Enjoy the picture of the class above looking nice.  And the one below looking silly.

Join me in May and June!

Hey Friends! I want to publicly invite you to join me for a few teaching and resourcing events that I will be leading in May and June when I am stateside.

If you are interested in church, mission, discipleship, simplicity, Africa, me, or our family, coffee, etc....come on out! Here are the best interactive environments I will be giving input into this trip:

  1. Baltimore, MD- Saturday, May 19, 9am-1pm at the Ethiopian Evangelical Church located at 8025A Liberty Road, Baltimore Maryland (see image below)
  2. Lancaster, PA- Saturday, June 2, 9am-3pm at Vision Columbia located at 291 South 4th Street, Columbia, Pennsylvania (see image below)
  3. Pittsburgh, PA- Sunday, June 3, 2pm-6pm at Crossway Community Church located at 109 Davis Road in Valencia, Pennsylvania (email me if you plan to come to this one)

Please come!

Church Planting.Noah Kaye.2012

I will also be speaking other places.  Read about them HERE!

The Biggest Mistake the Church Ever Made

I love Greg Boyd. And I love the way that he explains the most harmful shift in the history of Christendom-- the biggest mistake the church ever made. Please listen to this video (http://youtu.be/YV64Mt7X2D4) and think about the major implications on you and your life.

Interested in this stream? You may want to read my posts on the book "Pagan Christianity" by Frank Viola.

Read an overview HERE. Read about church buildings HERE.

Read about order of service HERE.

Read about Pastors and their salaries HERE.

Read about the sermon HERE.

Jesus Loves (through) Coffee

Can I share something crazy with you?  I love coffee. And I love Starbucks. I used to get a $1.68 regular Starbucks coffee almost every day when I lived in the states. But, as you know, I know longer live in the states.  And there are no Starbucks in South Africa.

So, last October, while in Mozambique, a man gave me a big bag of whole bean dark roast Starbucks coffee.  He did not like strong coffee. I thought, "really, Lord? You just wanted me to feel loved by you in the small things, huh?" I cannot tell you how deeply I felt God's love in that bag of coffee. Laugh if you want.

There are also these things called Starbucks VIAs which are little one cup packets of instant micro ground Starbucks coffee. They are actually the bomb and taste like the real deal. But there are not cheap. And somehow some friends from our home church decided to send us monthly packages throughout the least year....and every package contains Starbucks VIAs!

Well, last week I was running low, so I started limiting myself to one every few days. On Friday I was down to my last one, so I decided to save it for the weekend.

Then, I got the SMS below from Tricia Friday afternoon. A monthly package had arrived. With Starbucks VIAs! Just on time!!

It may seem shallow, but to me, it's deep. I feel God's love.  I know it's just coffee, but it feels like he uses something as wild as coffee to remind me that he loves me, cares about my needs AND my wants, and likes to give good gifts to his kids. Not silly to me. It's actually very significant. And I am very thankful.

Speaking of Jesus; The Art of Non-Evangelism

This weekend I read Carl Medearis's newest book, "Speaking of Jesus; the Art of Non-Evangelism".  It was an easy read. I read it in two, two-hour sittings. I liked it! (Even more, I liked that I got it on my iPad for free. Thanks, Kindle!) 

Not profound, not theologically explanatory, not really anything new to me that I have not already concluded and try to live....BUT, well said, well written and well needed deprogramming and reprogramming of language for those who want to follow Jesus and make him known.

Point of the book: The word "Christian" and the religion of "Christianity" have harmed the cause of Jesus in the world. Stop using this language, stop defending a faith system or religion and start spreading the gospel for what it is....the good news of JESUS! Sop speaking of your doctrines, beliefs, churches, and theologies and start speaking of JESUS!

Interesting personal note: I have walked with a number of people this year who did not know and love Jesus...and now they do.  They are followers of Jesus.  I have NEVER told them they were "Christians" and I have never one time heard them call themselves "Christians"!  They only refer to themselves as followers of Jesus. So, this works.  And it changes everything.

A Growing Sense of Call to the Church

This has unquestionably been the most transformational year of my life.  But one of the things that continues to amaze me is that I know less and less about what I will do when I grow up and have more and more peace about it all. It's wild. But, it's great. I could see things going in several different directions. But, here is my growing sense and my growing passion these days. It is at least a peep-hole into where things may go.

I am growing passionate to inspire Christians in churches to become disciples of Jesus in the world!   Those disciples will make disciples and bring the Kingdom of God on earth here and now! Mission will be at the core locally and globally, staying and launching.

Let me get this off my chest: I am PASSIONATE about the Nations! I want to see disciples take the name of Jesus to the unreached and unengaged people of the earth! I just am not hearing God call me to go to a UUPG region right now. Instead, I hear him calling me to equip, train, inspire, influence and launch within the church.  And this is a fairly uncomfortable place. It is always uneasy to encourage people to do something you are not doing. But, at the end of the day, each of us have to hear and obey the lead of the Father. Some will stay at home. Some will go to the rural tribes.  Many will head into the major cities. We all must hear and obey.

As for me, by developing and strengthening sense of calling is into the church...particularly established, traditional, stuck and frustrated ones. I dream every single day of walking with Pastors and churches who want to see their church move from broken and boring to bold and biblical. (Incidentally, I am NOT feeling called to journey with churches happy with the good work they are doing. Keep at it.) But, I think that the churches all over the west, as much as they have strayed from biblical church, have a HUGE role to play in the accomplishment of the great commission. And I would be willing to give my life to see them inspired and invited into passionate disciple making!

Anyway, I am busy writing quite a bit about this offline. I am busy preparing several resources for churches ready to start some graceful transitions toward some of the stuff in Acts and the early church. Craziness, I know.

I am getting stoked about doing some of this in May in America.

Note: I have so much to learn still. 

Don't Need Church for Community

I was watching a video today (this one HERE - fairly insightful) when I heard a guy say this: "People do not need church for community. They can get community in plenty of other places. They do not need church for tribal identity. They can get tribal identity from many other places." 

I agree. Kinda. And it got me thinking.

We believe that church is three loves:

  1. Love for God (worship)
  2. Love for others (community)
  3. Love for the lost (mission)

The problem with this approach is that indeed it is true that people can get community outside of church. Every time I drive through Masi, I see community all around me. A deeper sense of community than I have ever lived in. So, community is a basic human need, but can be attained in goth communities, at bars, at work, and in many other places under the sun.

People need church for other things, though! And I would submit that when community is a part of those other things, it's more powerful than any community you would find apart from them.

So, what do people need church for?

Worship. People need church for worship. They want to be a part of the community that is worshiping something bigger than anything on earth. They long for deep connection to the creator that has formed to them and made them in his image. They long to fill a hole in their lives that only worship of Jesus can fill.

Mission. People need church for mission. We all long to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. To join into healthy church, you join into the mission of God. People long to be a part of a community that is loving the lost, the broken, the hurting, the less fortunate, and the neglected people of the earth.

So, let me say it this way: People can get basic community almost anywhere. But, when community meets worship and mission, then you've got something very unique and with deep meaning...and God breathes on it...and we call that CHURCH.

Truth or Lie?

If you respond to or react to poor behavior from another person, you are missing the point.  Behind every behavior is an emotion.

If you just focus on even the raw emotions of another person, you are missing the point. Beneath every emotion is a root hurt.

Even If you just focus on the root hurt in another person, you are still missing the point. Deeper than even the root hurt is a LIE.

I lie that has been believed and lived into. A lie that has taken hold...a strong hold (stronghold).

I am sorry to tell you, but you and I both still believe many, many lies. Our believing them is Satan's master plan. He is the Father of them.

But, God wants to give us truth--truth that will set us free (John 8:36).

In 2 Corinthians 10: 4-5, we see that the battle is fought against the lies in our minds where we must 1) demolish strongholds, 2) demolish arguments against the knowledge of God, and 3) take every THOUGHT captive.

What strongholds, arguments and thoughts are you still fighting in your mind that is feeding your hurt, your emotions and ultimately, your behavior?

Perhaps you should make a list of some lies you believe and in a column next to it, make a list of the counteractive truths.

Workers of the Eleventh Hour

If you are serious about world missions and the accomplishment of the great commission, I strongly urge you to read this blog post.  It is long, but it will be worth your time.  Trust me. Here are my notes and quotes from my reading of the book "Releasing The Workers of the Eleventh Hour" by Ben Naja. I believe that this is a prophetic book and it has opened my eyes and impacted how I see my future!!

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The book is based off the parable of the landowner in Matthew 20. Just like the landowner in the parable who gathered workers throughout the whole day and even at the 11th hour, God has been calling missionaries to himself since the garden and is doing it even today in the 11th hour.

Mission is not a modern concept, and the great commission did not begin in the New Testament. Missions began in God's heart longing to restore man's broken relationship to him. Mission began in the garden of Eden at the fall.

The Author of this book believes that the parable of the landowner in Matthew 20 is a prophetic parable with the following meaning: The workers that were hired early in the morning represent the missionaries of you'll testament. Like Noah, Abraham, Jonah, and Israel. The workers hired at the third hour represent the missionaries of the New Testament. These would have been the apostles, many of which were martyred. Although this may have been a small group, it was very instrumental and powerful in a short period of time in laying the foundation for the church.  The workers of the sixth hour in the parable are the missionaries of the 4th to 18th centuries. Progress was very slow and very little people joined into mission...thanks to Constantine and the church entering the state. The workers of the ninth hour are the missionaries of the 19th and 20th centuries. There was major progress and over a period of 200 years, millions of people from all Nations came in contact with the Gospel and many churches were planted all over the world.  But just like the parable of the landowner, the Lord of the harvest goes out again to enlist more workers. The 11th hour workers represent the missionaries of the 21st century.  The workers of the ninth hour worked with tremendous effort and brought in an important part of the harvest, but with a decrease of global North workers and the drastic increase of world population, the Lord of the harvest knows that it is impossible for them to bring in the whole harvest on their own. 11th hour workers are needed!

We have made great advances in the last 200 years but we don't have another 200 years to wait. To reach the billions of people of our generation, millions of workers are required. And these workers are in the global South (Mainly Africa and Asia). The workers of the 11th hour will be so numerous that one will no longer speak of sending individuals, but of sending movements.

At the beginning of the 20th century, 94% of all Christians lived in the global North. By the year 2000, 71% of all Christians were living in the global South. This is an extremely significant shift. The church in the global North must recognize this change and keep in step with God's purposes for it. The Global North church has years of experience in cross cultural communication of the Gospel, and by sharing this experience with the leaders of the global South, they can help to catalyze and equip those who will do the majority of mission work in this final hour.

The leaders and churches of the global South are gaining confidence and independence. They no longer want to be seen as children, but they want to be taken seriously as partners. The leaders that God is raising up in the global South may very likely employ a more authoritative leadership style than the previous missionaries of the global North. That does not make it less biblical or less effective. We must trust them to set in place their own structures and send from their own structures. One of the reasons that it is so important that the global South develop its own sending structures is because their systems will match their culture. Especially in issues of conflict management and finance.

The workers of the 11th hour will not possess diplomas or academic titles. They will be made up of men and women that are qualified for ministry because of their maturity rather than their diplomas. They have received great authority through the anointing of the Holy Spirit rather than through positions or titles conferred by men.

Every year the western mission force loses around 7,650 missionaries. Formal theological institutions that say they train missionaries often address primarily knowledge components, not character or even skills needed to survive and thrive in cross-cultural missions. There will always be a need for graduates from seminaries and missionary training schools, but among the workers of the 11th hour, they will be in the minority.

The workers of the 11th hour do not expect financial support from their sending churches like the missionaries from the ninth hour and the global North. They may receive initial help or a small amount of regular support over a short period of time, but in general, their support will come from tent making (secular work).

One third of all unreached Muslim people groups are in sub-Saharan Africa, but proximate, or near to them, are 116 million Evangelical Christians. This is no coincidence. It shows God's careful preparation of his church to reach all people groups.

There are a number of reasons that people proximate to unreached peoples are best to be missionaries to those people. One is Geographic proximity. This is simple to understand because it is locationally convenient. Another is cultural proximity and this describes the proximity of a worker to the unreached in dimensions of worldview, customs and culture, historical affinity, and physical appearance. Another form of proximity is linguistic. This could mean that the sent come from similar linguistic families and languages with common structures and word use. Then there is economic proximity which describes the proximity of income levels and standards of living. When the missionary and their host people have the same standard of living, people are more likely to follow Jesus because of his person and his Gospel, rather than be influenced by a prospect of financial gain. Other aspects of proximity would include educational, sociological and missiological.

Workers of the ninth hour have modeled full support and full-time spiritual ministry for emerging missionaries of the global south. Such a model is not only too expensive for most churches in the global South, but, in most cases it is strategically unwise. Workers of the 11th hour should return to Paul's tent making model of the New Testament.  Working a job among the culture that you are serving will automatically provide you entrance into the hearts of the dozens and even hundreds of people. This spirit filled performance of secular work proclaims the Gospel wordlessly and paves the way for verbal proclamation.

The workers of the global South should not go to the churches of the global North asking for money to send out missionaries! This is NOT a reproducible approach to missions for the global South.

We must have a contextual messenger, and a contextual message in order to do fruitful contextual church planting which produces healthy contextual churches.

We really must pay attention to our personal evangelism strategies and recognize that they are not the best approach. We must start thinking in terms of entire families, villages and networks (Oikos) coming to faith together, and rapidly. This was not only the approach of the New Testament but it is the most sensible approach to see church planting movements take off and the great commission accomplished. Oikos evangelism aims to reach the heads of households. To win the head of a family means to win a potential leader, a potential new church and a potential new meeting place. It does not matter where the church meets, a new location is won, and multiplication is pre-programmed. Workers of the 11th hour or more likely to understand the importance of Oikos Evangelism as a strategy, because they themselves often come from an Oikos oriented background.

A massive unprecedented revolution of social structures has occurred within the last two centuries: the world population has migrated from rural areas into cities. The 21st century is an urban world just as the previous 20 centuries of Christianity have been a rural world. It is estimated that by 2100 the number of rural inhabitants maybe only 10% of the entire world. This trend is of such a magnitude that it can be categorized as a population movement: the movement of more than 1 billion people to the cities over the last two decades is the largest population movement in history. The worldwide church has not yet sufficiently responded to this shift. Today the church is still working within mostly rural structures and contexts.

At the beginning of the 21st-century, there were 482 megacities (which are cities above 1 million people) and 20 supercities (which are cities with more than 10 million people). It remains the job of the workers of the 11th hour to flood all megacities with house church movements to Jesus. So far mission has always been associated with a romantic ideal, a picture of tribal peoples, palm trees and sunsets. We need to paint a new vision into the hearts of our young pioneering missionaries. Our new vision of missionary ministry must focus on the cities. If we want to win the nations for Christ, we need to conquer the cities. The migration to the cities is so large that it must have a divinely ordained redemptive purpose behind it. The workers of the 11th hour understand this new reality, because many of them were born and raised in megacities.

The churches and missions agencies of the global North have responsibility to serve as catalysts to global South sending movements by encouraging their initiatives, patterns of engagement, development of ministry models and sending structures. Catalysts don't recruit co-workers for their own mission agencies; rather, they join the sending movements of the global South, working in their name and under their leadership.

If the workers of the last hundred years of missionary experience fail to pass on the lessons they've learned to the workers of the next hundred years, then they condemn the emerging missions movements of the global South to repeat their mistakes. But, our trainings that we offer to emerging 11th hour missionaries should be short, specific, need and practice oriented training. It usually should take place in the form of short seminars and conferences. And on site.

The balance between the two extremes of paternalism and unkindness must be maintained at all costs. There are ways to partner that hold responsibilities for both parties. Neither giving things to people nor doing things for people will be of much long-term benefit, and both may have serious negative side effects.

Workers of the ninth hour assist the sending movement of the global South by coaching and mentoring its leaders. Many of these mentors will not necessarily live among an unreached people group, rather will inspire, encourage and coach from the outside, from the global North. This will be a new emerging role called the non-residential missionary. They may not always be on site, but will not necessarily be less effective.

The church of the global North and the church of the global South must enter into equal partnership and the church of the global North needs to accept that the emerging movements of the global South must develop their own structures, implement their own strategies, follow their own leaders and bear their own name. The northern churches must except that they are no longer parents of underage children, but partners with mature counterparts.

Note: The Lord does not divide his church into global North and global South. He views it as one body through which he brings kingdom blessings to all the families on earth.

Many missions leaders believe that the fulfillment of the great commission could be achieved within our generation many believe that the final hour of world missions is rapidly approaching.

Speaking Schedule for Upcoming U.S. Trip

In a tad over a month now, Davis and I will be flying back to America for the first time in about a year and a half. Read more about the trip by CLICKING HERE. I wanted to publicize some dates, times and places that I will be sharing or teaching. You are invited to come to ANY of these events. For real. Come. I would love to see you.

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Saturday, May 19, 9am-3pm :: Baltimore MD :: Teaching a Simple Church Training Event for Pastors/Church Leaders

Sunday, May 20, 10am :: Lanham, MD :: Sharing at Capital Christian Fellowship (Our home church)

Wednesday, May 23, 6pm :: Lanham, MD :: Sharing at Grace Bible Church

Friday, May 25, 6pm :: Lanham, MD :: South African Bring and Braai and Q & A about our work (Missionary Support Team Event)

Saturday, May 26, 10am :: Lanham, MD :: Lanham Christian School Commencement Address

Sunday, May 27 :: Baltimore, MD :: Sharing at Ethiopian Evangelical Church

Saturday, June 2, 9am-3pm ::  Columbia, PA (Lancaster) :: Teaching a Simple Church Training Event for Pastors/Church Leaders

Sunday, June 3, 10am-12pm :: Valencia, PA (Pittsburgh) :: Sharing at Crossway Community Church

Sunday, June 3, 2pm-6pm :: Valencia, PA (Pittsburgh) :: Teaching a Simple Church Training Event for Pastors/Church Leaders

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(There are a number of other things in the works that I will share once I know details. Also, if you want to arrange a time together for speaking or resourcing, let me know. The objective of this trip is to find new partners. Any assistance to this end is deeply appreciated.)

"Switch" by Chip & Dan Heath

In the last few days, I read this book called "Switch" by Chip and Dan Heath.  It's about change. It was great! Really liked it (though it is a secular book- whatever that means).  I highly recommend it for those influencing a change effort of any kind.  However, below, I will give you some of the main/best blurbs from the book. This pretty well covers it:

  • What looks like a people problem is often a situation problem. What looks like laziness is often exhaustion. What looks like resistance is often lack of clarity.
  • Some is not a number. Soon is not a time. Here's the number:___. Here's the time:___. These must be specific in change efforts.
  • All of us can remember a time when a friend was laboring over what was wrong in their relationship. How many of us can recall a time when one of our friends spent the same amount time trying to analyze why things were working so well?
  • Bright spots matter. Find out what's working and do more of it. A major reason for change is when we locate bright spots and zero in on them. Instead we often find bright spots and choose not to trust them and become skeptical.
  • Major finding: big problems usually require small solutions sometimes over weeks and sometimes over decades. When many of us analyze problems we look for a solution that matches the scale of the problem. This is unwise. It is a wrong mental model. We see a 24 inch hole and look for 24 inch peg. Instead we must say what is working right now and how can we do more of it? Start there. This is solution focused change. We must stop asking what is broken and how do we fix it and start looking at what is working and do more of it.
  • Naturally most of us think choice is a good thing. But sometimes choice stops liberating and starts debilitating.
  • Any successful change requires translation of ambiguous goals into concrete behaviors. In short to make a switch you need to script the critical moves. You cannot script every move but it is extremely important that we script the critical moves that we want to see happen in the tough moments of change.
  • When you want someone to behave in a new way explain the new way clearly. Do not assume the new moves are obvious. Until you can ladder your way down from a change idea to a specific behavior, you are not ready to lead a switch. To create movement you've got to be specific and concrete.
  • When you're at the beginning, don't obsess about the middle, because the middle is going to look different once you get there. Just look for a strong beginning and envision a strong ending and get moving.
  • Simply raising the bar is the wrong approach if you want to motivate a reluctant elephant. You need to lower the bar. If you want a reluctant elephant to get moving you need to shrink the change. Need to encourage what progress is already been made and make the change that you are presenting look doable.
  • Sometimes people don't need milestones, they need inch pebbles. We must shrink the change so people feel big relative to the challenge. Yes, we shrink the change. But then, we must grow the people. Particularly in identity surrounding the potential task or change. Small steps toward them joining the change--foot in the door-- is needed.
  • Every one of us either has a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. The first will not see much change. The second will. Simple as that. Which are you?
  • In leading any switch or change the challenge is to keep the elephant moving forward. Whereas the rider needs direction, the elephant needs motivation. Motivation comes from a feeling, knowledge isn't enough to motivate change. But motivation also comes from confidence. The elephant has to believe that it's capable of conquering the change. And there are two ways to build people's confidence so that they feel *big* relative to their challenge. You can shrink the change or you can grow your people -- or preferably...both.
  • Behavior is contagious! It doesn't matter if you are a teenager with piercings or mature adult that's been in an industry for many years. Behavior is contagious on a social, personal and business level.
  • This is major: we do not need to create new believers so much as we need to unleash the believers we already have. We must tell influencers that support our change that it's safe to get vocal now. Unleash them!
  • There are reformers and there are resistors. Both are functioning out of a certain identity. As odd as it sounds, for major change to happen, the reform minded people must come together and form what is known as an oppositional identity. They need space and language to form their new identity. We must get the reformers together. We call that free space. They need to coordinate outside the gaze of the resisters!
  • Counterintuitively, you've got to let your organization have an identity conflicts. For a time, at least, you've got to permit an us versus them struggle to take place. Of course this violates our kumbaya & unity instincts and the feeling that we all must be on the same page all the time. It's l How on earth can 100 people all be in agreement on the same thing regarding change in difficult moments? It just isn't possible. So we must turn to the reformers get them together in a safe place and let them talk. Then we will get clarity and momentum toward our switch.
  • Change is not an event, it is a process. And if we want to keep that process moving, we must find the bright spots and encourage people every little step of the way. Just like training a monkey to ride a skateboard or dolphin to jump through hoop, we take it a little at a time with lots of rewards along the way.
  • When change works, it tends to follow a pattern. The people who change have clear direction, ample motivation, and a supportive environment. In other words, when change works, it's because the rider, the elephant, and the path are all aligned in support of the switch!!

What I don't like about Simple Church

While we were cooking dinner together tonight, Tricia and I started singing songs we grew up with in the church. Having both grown up at the same time and in AG churches, we sang many of the same songs. As we sang loudly in the kitchen, Davis just stared wondering how we learned all these songs without him! (Sometimes, I think he's convinced we had no life before him.) Then, I looked at Davis and said, "you're Mommy and Daddy grew up in a different type of church than you are growing up in and we learned lots of songs." I felt a tinge of sadness when I said it. Because I have many positive memories about church as a kid. Lots of programs and events gave me lots of feelings of involvement in something.

This caused me to reflect back on the things I appreciated about growing up in a church like that. I know that I post a lot about a new way of doing church...a way that I am deeply committed to exploring and living for many years to come. And most of what I say is positive.

But let me tell you a few things that I don't like about Simple Church:

  • No music. I miss all the songs we used to sing. We don't worship God with singing much in Simple church...and when we do it can feel awkward.
  • Leadership Confusion. I don't always enjoy the leadership dance of who is in charge, who is the actual leader, who is the perceived leader, etc. Oops, there is no leader. Jesus leads. Well, it doesn't always work out so perfectly...for real. Sometimes it feels clumsy, even like a game.
  • Nothing's Big. Sometimes I really long for the energy & feeling of a room full of hundreds of people praising Jesus together. (We are trying to do corporate celebrations here and there, but they are not nearly as polished as a group of people that do this every week-- not that polish is the goal of church.)
  • Immeasurable. The results of our life together as a church are not quite as measurable as are the results in traditional church (though, again, this is not a bad thing....perhaps it's the way it should be). You cannot gather numbers and bottom lines together to track "growth". Everything is more organic not quantifiable. Sometimes I miss assessment.

There is more, but this is start.

Note: I have neither thrown out the beautiful things I have learned in the past, nor have I embraced them as the way of the future. I also don't want you think that I am drinking simple church Kool Aid or something. I believe there are strengths for us to learn from in every type of church!  And more and more I thinking that Jesus wants to use all types, styles, shapes and sizes.

My New Website

Welcome to the brand new online home of Noah Kaye Ministries International. Send me a big check and I will send you a towel with oil on it that will heal you. Ok, now that you have had your JOKE for the day...here's the deal.

Twitter bought Posterous (where my blog used to be). The fate and quality of Posterous will now be uncertain according to trusted sources. So, I left Posterous. I joined Wordpress and made my blog look more like a website.

Enjoy. Come back often. Share with your friends.

The action is still at www.noahkaye.com!

Five Movement Killers

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I dream about movements to Jesus.  I would give/am giving my life for them. I can't really define my dreams yet.  Well, I sort of can...but not here...not now....not yet. But this is a GREAT resource about church planting movements if you are interested: Click here.

Well, what we can be sure of is this...if there are things that feed and start movements, then there are also things that stop movements. I recently heard a speaker share 3 things that kill movements. I added two more. Here they are...


Five Movement Killers:

1. Big Budgets 
2. Big Programs 
3. Big Buildings 
4. Big Shots
5. Big Gatherings 

 

Jesus, help us to do all we can to point people to you and not do anything or be anything that would stop movements to you!

Guilt ≠ Change

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Confession: After almost 10 years of marriage, I still fail at it plenty! 

 

Now that this is out of the way, let me share openly (with Tricia's blessing) something I've learned from the Lord through our marriage witin the last few months.

 

Guilt does not bring change! Condemnation will not breed transformation. Beating yourself up will not lift you out. Guilt may help you make a change for a day or a week, but it will be a cover up, not a real repair. Feelings of condemnation and failure can be inspiring-- for all the worng reasons-- and none of the changes you make will really last-- not if guilt was their motivation. 

 

Let me prove my point with some transparency about my own life. I cannot count how many times Tricia (my wife) has let me know that I was not making her feel like my priority. She has found many ways to say it through the years, but it always comes back to the same things-- I want to feel like the most important relationship in your life, Noah! I want you to SHOW me that what you SAY about me is true." If I have heard it once, I have heard it 300 times. 

 

My reaction almost every time: I feel like a loser and a terrible husband. I feel guilty...becuase I am.  She is right. And out of my feelings of regret and sorrow, I launch a campaign to DO better. 

 

It never lasted. Becuase guilt ≠ change. 

 

A few months ago, while laying in bed it was : "Noah, I want to feel like number one to you after Jesus AND I really want you to lead me more spiritualy. You seem to be able to lead everyone else spiritually.  What about me?"  Now, stop here!  This was the exact place where, for the last 10 years, guilt would enter the scene.  Not this time. There was some pain.  It would be hard for anyone to hear this from their spouse. But something wild happened....

 

I felt LOVE! I felt Jesus loving on me. I felt him accepting me.  I sensed him hugging me. I heard him speaking to my heart and saying..."I love you, Noah, and the best motivation for change is love for me. When you love your wife, you love me." It was a powerful moment!  And it was one my first real tastes of love-motivated change. 

 

Since that night, things are different.  God's love for me is inspiring me to love Tricia more. The love and acceptance of Jesus is the engine that is propelling me ahead these days.  Not guilt! And it has felt WAY different and WAY more lasting than anytime before.

 

Guilt ≠ Change! 

Tickets to Church?

Tickets

Recently, I have read about several churches in America that are so large that people need a ticket to enter for a service. Easter is fast approaching. And since they cannot fit the thousands of people into their multiple locations, people need to get their ticket if they expect to attend. 

Let's imagine that someone gets a ticket to church before they run out of available tickets...what is it that they receive? Basically...

1. They get to enter the building where a service is held. 
2. They get a seat - and will sit in it quietly for 90 minutes. 
3. They get awesome music by a talented band. 
4. They get an inspiring talk by the well known leader of the church. 
5. They may even get some type of spiritual nudge or food. 

I got to thinking...

Imagine a church of 2,500 people in a city of 250,000 people. Imagine that the church's desire is to reach every person in their city with the gospel. Now imagine that they all come to your church this Sunday. Imagine that they don't have a ticket. Where will you seat them? Nevermind seating, how on earth would you ever begin to disciple them? I guess they just go home. 

Ok, so they won't all come. What if only half come? 150,000 people. Same problem. Same questions. What do we do? What if only a shabby 10% come? 25,000 people! Same problem. Same questions. What if even just 1% come? 2,500 people show up on top of the 2,500 you already barely hold? We are still in a big jam! Are we ready? Where will they sit? How would we respond faithfully to disciple them? Is our "church" ready for this? 

The structure, strategy and function of many churches on earth today tell me two things:
1. They do NOT want to reach their whole city. 
2. They don't take the Jesus & the New Testament seriously. His commands are just suggestions. 

What are some ways that a church could prepare itself to reach all 250,000 people in its city? Is there a structure or strategy that could make this happen? 

Jesus said he wants us all-- all nations-- not just those with tickets. 

How? 

Our Missionary Support Team!

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Our family is sent and backed by Eastern Mennonite Missions (EMM) in Salunga, Pennsylvania of the USA.  We are very, very thankful for EMM and it's missions history and missions heart.  We consider it an honor to be EMM missionaries. One of the things that Tricia and I are most thankful for is that EMM requires all missionaries to form a Missionary Support Team when they begin the journey of responding to God's call. The Missionary Support Team (MST) is a group of people with an interest in and love for the missionary, and they serve as a vital link between the missionary, the supporting home community, and EMM. The MST led and walked with us through the discerning, fund-raising and sending process. In addition, they continue to encourage, support and advise us while we are serving overseas. They also lead the fundraising and administrative responsibilties that keep us on the feild.

We cannot begin to tell you what a peace of mind we have knowing that there is a team of people back home that have our best interest at heart and are walking with our family each step of the way. 

Here is our team. Note that each play a specific role:

  1. June- Chair
  2. Ruth- Treasurer
  3. Barbara- Prayer Coordinator 
  4. Lia- Child Advocate 
  5. Abiola & Jaye- Church Communicators
  6. Lacreshia- Small Group Representative
  7. Glenn- Pastoral Rep and CCF Missions Overseer
  8. Pam & Joe- Family Representatives
  9. Harmony & Selah- Sisters, Fundraising Planners
  10. Tracy Wenzel- Friend Rep
  11. Paul- Local Pastor and Strategic Connections
The idea with this group aligns with the Ecclesiastes 4 concept that a cord of 3 strands is not easily broken. Here are the strands in this missions sending:
1. The Missionary (Noah, Tricia, Davis and Lily)
2. EMM (Missions Organization)
3. CCF (Spiritual Community)

The team meets bimonthly or as needed and responds to any issues that arise. They are now assisting me in preparing for my trip home in May.

Anyway, they are a major blessing and I share this for 3 reasons:
1. To share how we are being cared for as a family.
2. To express again my great thanks to EMM and our MST.
3. To inspire other missionaries to go form a team like this!